Faith Can Change A Life

 

Me:  What are you doing?

Prodigal:  I am looking for a four leaf clover

Me:  They’re as scarce as grass ’round a hog trough.

Prodigal:  I might still find one though.

Me:  Have hope Prodigal!

 

This is from the book Believe and Rejoice by James P. Gills M.D.

 

The experience of John Wesley, the great evangelist and founder of the Methodist movement, shows how abandoned faith can change a life.  By the time he was thirty-five, Wesley knew a lot about Christ.  He had graduated from Oxford University and resolved to become a priest in the Church of England.  He was ordained a priest in 1728.  He and his brother, Charles, helped start the Holy Club at Oxford.  He read one hundred spiritual books a year for a dozen years.  He even traveled to Georgia on a mission trip.  But he knew there was something missing.  On his mission trip he met some Moravian immigrants who had the spiritual peace he realized he was lacking.  His work in America was not very effective, and he returned to England.

Back in London, Wesley met Peter Bohler, a Moravian who convinced him that what he needed was simple: he needed faith, not just knowledge.  During a meeting in Aldersgate Street in 1738, Wesley was transformed.  As he heard Martin Luther’s preface to the Commentary on Romans being read, he was truly elated.  He realized the promises of God are true!  He wrote, “I felt my heart strangely warmed.  I felt I did trust in Christ, Christ alone for salvation.  He felt a quickening that comes from truly experiencing God’s grace and presence.  He was filled with God’s complete and perfect joy.

From this point on, Wesley was a changed man.  He preached with a spiritual fire and fervor that was fed by his faith.  And he was filled with a glorious joy that affected him the rest of his life because he relinquished to God and believed in His promises.

 

1 John 4:20-21

If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen.  And this commandment we have from him; whoever loves God must also love his brother.

 

 

Jennifer Van Allen

 

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www.faithincounseling.org

Likin and Uh Lovin

 

Me:  Thank you for the this day Lord!

Prodigal:  I agree, thank you for being you!

 

Taint no use to grumble

‘N’ frown and keep a frettin’

If you can’t get the things you want;

Then, want the things you’re gettin’!

The path you tread is much the same

As others is pursuin’.

If you can’t do the things you like

Then, like the things you’re doin!.

The world may have its sour folks,

But this will bear repeatin’:

It won’t take long for you to get

As sour as those you’re meetin’,

There may be good folks far away

You’d mightly like to tie to,

But if you ain’t nigh folks you love

Then, love the folks ‘ats nigh you.

Of course there’s a lots of folks

That won’t bear close inspection,

But it you stop and think a bit

YOU ain’t  quite reached perfection!

If things don’t move just like they might

Keep pushin’ and shovin’

And don’t let nothin’ interfere

With likin’ and uh lovin’!

 

Margaret E. Sangster

 

James 1:12

Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

 

Society

Prodigal:  I thought we would find the ladder in here.  Now we don’t have one.

Me:  Well, this is as welcome as a dust storm on a trial drive.

Prodigal:  What do we do now?

Me:  Lets call the neighbors and see if they can help.

 

This is from Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

 

A Christian society is not going to arrive until most of us really want it:  and we are not going to want it until we become fully Christian.  I may repeat “Do as you would be done by” till I am black in the face, but I cannot really carry it out till I love my neighbor as myself:  and I cannot learn to love my neighbor as myself till I learn to love God:  and I cannot learn to love God except by learning to obey Him.  

 

God my wants are not important right now. I must focus on my neighbor.  I must focus on loving even if it means I have to suffer.

 

Isaiah 60:1

Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the LORD is risen upon thee.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

 

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

 

 

Avoid Choice

Prodigal:  I love your smile Brady!

Me:  Me too!

Prodigal:  His smile is wider than the rind of a blue-ribbon watermelon.

Me:  I agree

This is from the book Bold Love by Dr. Dan B. Allender & Dr. Tremper Longman III

Some of us approach life with overt commitment to avoid choice (passivity) or perfect choice (perfectionism) so that the consequences of choice will not fall on our shoulders.  Others make irresponsible choices (impulsion) or delay them (procrastination) so that excuses can be readily offered.  Some make aggressive choices (intimidation) to keep others from being able to exert their freedom to choose.  All of these approaches hate the burden of choice and attempt to side step the responsiblity to deal with the consequences of choice.

Lord we think some times we don’t have to make the choice.  The Lord keeps calling.  He wants us to make the right choice with His wisdom.  We do not have to fear in that choice and we do not have to worry.  The Lord has been watching it all.  He has loved you through it all.  Now step toward the choice and watch the Lord work.

And God called the firmament Heaven.  And the evening and the morning were the second day.

Genesis 1:8

Jennifer Van Allen

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For the Birds

 

Me:  I like your bird friend!

Prodigal:  Yes, he would like to hear a story.

Me:  This one is for the birds.

 

This is from Chicken Soup for the Country Soul

 

While I was standing at the kitchen window, five-year old Spencer, my oldest son, ran into the house screaming, “We need a doctor out here!  We need a doctor!  Hurry, Mom!!”

“What’s wrong?”  I asked.

Spencer anxiously told me he had found a dead bird that needed a doctor.

Dutifully, I grabbed a small plastic bag from the pantry and took Spencer’s hand–after all, that’s the sort of thing mother’s do!  While my son led me out the door and toward the bird, I explained that if the creature was indeed dead, a doctor could not help.  When we arrived at the accident scene, it was obvious that the baby bird was dead.  Spencer and I could see the nest high up in the tree.  My son and I discussed the probable age of the baby bird, its inability to fly well, and exactly how the fall had caused its death.

“I bet his mommy and daddy really miss him,”  Spencer observed.  I reached for my boy’s hand and tried to ease his sadness by saying I was sure they did, but that they would be okay because the little bird had gone to Heaven to be with God and PoPo (my deceased grandfather).  I assured Spencer that the bird’s mommy and daddy knew their little one would be cared for and loved.  I told Spencer that PoPo loved little birds, and I was sure he was in Heaven holding and playing with the baby bird right then.  I picked up the little creature’s body, slipped it into my plastic bag and gently placed the bird in the trash can.  Nothing else was said about the matter for the rest of the day.  Spencer went right back to playing as if he had never been interrupted, and I returned to my work in the kitchen.

At breakfast the next morning, Spencer sadly explained to his father that he had found a baby bird the day before that had fallen from its nest.

“It was dead, Daddy!”

Trying to lift Spencer’s spirits and remind him that the little bird was really okay, I asked our son to tell Daddy where the baby bird was.  Spencer, looking solemn-faced at his dad, stated, “In trash can with Mama’s granddaddy, PoPo.”

 

Merilyn Gilliam

 

Isaiah 59:1

Behold, the Lord’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear:

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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www.faithincounseling.org

Trying To Control Us

 

Me:  Whats going on with your friends.

Prodigal:  They got caught up in their own noose.

Me:  Well maybe we can help.

 

This is from the book Parenting:  From Surviving to Thriving by Charles Swindoll

 

There are people who do not want us to be free.  They do not want us to be free before God, accepted just as we are by his grace.  They don’t want us to be free to express our faith originally and creatively in the world.  They want to control us; they want to use us for their own purposes.  They themselves refuse to live arduously and openly in faith, but huddle together with a few others and try to get a sense of approval by insisting that all look alike, talk alike, and act alike, thus validating one another’s worth.

They try to enlarge their numbers only on the condition that new members act and talk and behave the way they do.  These people infiltrate communities of faith “to spy out our freedom which we have in Christ Jesus” and not infrequently find ways to control, restrict and reduce the lives of free Christians.  Without being aware of it we become anxious about what others will say about us, obsessively concerned about what others think we should do.  We no longer live the good news but anxiously try to memorize and recite the script that someone else has assigned to us.

 

This is not the love of God but the control of man.  Please find others who can show you the love of God.

 

John 8:31-32

So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.”

 

 

Jennifer Van Allen

 

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

 

Me:  Time for another video!

Prodigal  I am ready to watch.

 

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Proverbs 1:9

They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Miracle on the Homosassa

 

Me:  What a pretty creek!

Prodigal:  Yes, I am enjoying the peacefulness of it.

Me:  I can add a story about a creek to our time.

 

Back in the those days, our family was very poor.  We lived in a small house on the Homosassa River, four miles upstream from the Gulf of Mexico.  My father struggled to make ends meet as a commercial fisherman.

To help, my mother and I would gather oysters when they were in season.  Other times, we went into the woods and chopped fallen trees into firewood, which we sold to the people in town.  On good days, we could make a dollar or two.

This was 1939.  It was a bad time.  A lot of people were poor.  The fortunate people who had jobs earned 30 cents an hour.

That year, my other joined the Church of Jesus Christ in town.  There was no road from our house into town.  To get there, we had to go by boat three more miles upstream to the highway and the little village.  Even so, my mother was at the church every time the doors opened.  She loved the church.  It gave her a certain strength that carried her through the ordeal of raising a family in such dark days.

We didn’t have a Bible in our home.  We couldn’t afford one.  This was a great sadness for my mother.  Week after week, she tried to put a few coins aside, saving for enough to buy a Bible, but time and again some emergency would come up, and she had to use the money for food or clothes or medicine.  She never complained, but her face showed her hunger for the word of God in our house.

One day my father came home from work with an empty boat.  He had caught nothing.  He went into the house discouraged, as though he never wanted to look at the river again.

I watched my mother.  She got into the boat, arranged the nets, started the motor and headed downstream.  As she later told me many times, she went about a mile toward those vast, shallow flats that reach as far as the eye can see at the mouth of the Homosassa.  She cut off the motor.  Then she knelt in the bow of the little boat, and she began talking to God.

“Father,” she said, “I want a Bible for my home and my children.  We don’t have any money, and so I need Your help.  Let me catch some fish today and I’ll take them to the market and buy a Bible before nightfall.  I have been working hard, trying to get enough ahead to buy a Bible, but I can’t seem to make it.  Anything I catch today will be Yours.  Please help me.”

She started the motor.  Standing up, she threw into the water the staff that held one end of the net.  Slowly she moved the boat in a circle to close off the net.  Even before she had gone halfway, fat mullet began jumping into the net.  And by the time she had completed the circle, the trapped area was alive with flouncing fish.  My mother had lived on the river over a dozen years, ever since she married my father at the age of 16, and she had never seen anything like this.

As fast as my mother could empty her catch into the boat, the net filled up again.  In an hour, there was hardly enough room in the boat for herself and the net.  She headed home.

I was on the dock as my mother arrived.  The boat was riding so low in the water that I wondered if it had sprung a leak.   Then I saw the cargo.  I couldn’t believe my eyes.

“Come on,” Mother called to me.  “We’re going into town to get our Bible.”

We went upstream to the highway, where we borrowed a cart from a farmer, transferred the catch into it, then hurried into town to a wholesaler who sold fish to stores and restaurants.  The scales showed that my mother had brought in nearly 300 pounds of fish.  The wholesaler paid three cents a pound for the catch–almost ten dollars, as well as my father could do during a good, seven-day week.

We went directly into a bookstore and bought the best Bible the money could buy.  My mother let me carry the Bible as we went back to the river and returned the cart.  She let me hold it on my lap as she maneuvered the boat back to our home.  That evening, my mother read aloud to us from her own Bible for the very first time.

After nearly 40 years, the Bible is still in our family, a bit tattered now from so much use.  Every morning, my mother would read the Bible to herself; every evening, she would read aloud to the family.  We children studied the Bible as we prepared for our Sunday-school classes.  And my mother never tired of telling people how she had acquired it.

In December of 1976, my parents celebrated their golden wedding anniversary.  In the special ceremony at our church, my mother and my father held the family Bible between them–living proof that the miracles of the Bible can come alive today for those who have faith enough to believe in them.

 

Isaiah 32:17

And the effect of righteousness will be peace, and the result of righteousness, quietness and trust forever.

 

Jennifer Van Allen

www.theprodigalpig.com

www.faithincounseling.org

Women Lovin’ Jesus

 

Prodigal:  These are good!

Me:  Yes, this is for you Mom, I love you!

 

Today we have another video in our series of the Proverbs.  Watch the video and please share with others.

 

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Proverbs 1:8

 

My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother:

 

Jennifer Van Allen

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